What To Wear for Engagement Photos | Bedfordshire Wedding & Portrait Photographer (2024)

What to wear on engagement photo shoots is one of the commonly asked questions I hear from newly engaged couples. This is a serious question you need to consider, because you will want to look back on these images with joy, rather than thinking, why did I wear that! The most important thing to remember about your engagement shoot is, it should be unique to you.

Why have an Engagement Photo shoot?

Engagement photo shoots are a great way of working with your photographer before the wedding day, it may even be the first time you and your fiancè have professional images taken together. You will find that it is an ice breaker for you all, it will really help you to build your trust in the photographer and get used to being in front of the lens with no pressure. This in my opinion, makes a massive difference on your wedding day, all the formalities have already been done and you can just crack on and enjoy your day knowing what to expect from your photographer.

Engagement photos can be used in your invites, save the date cards, photo albums, and guest signing book, I have even had them used as table pieces. This will bring a whole other meaning to the engagement session and makes them even more special.

When Planning what clothes to wear I would keep it simple and comfortable, it is all about who you are and your personalities, if you pick clothing that you wouldn’t normally wear, or is just not you, this will definitely show in the photos.

Think about the time of year and what compliments that season, especially if your engagement shoot is outdoors, if its Autumn or winter, bring warm coats or think about wellies if you are going to woodland, nothing worse that having some nice boots only to find the trails are muddy. the same goes for summer shoots, wearing big coats or jumper may make you sweat, causing sweat marks on clothing or shiny foreheads.

You will want to coordinate with each other, think about complimentary colours, and styles based on the location, If it is in the grounds of a stately home and you are wearing more formal attire, this will look great but if it is in the local park or woods it will not translate as well.

Dogs or are a great way to help you feel natural in front of the camera, I actively encourage couples to bring their dogs to woodland sessions, it is part of who you are. This helps you to feel relaxed, taking your mind off the camera and giving you something to focus on, actually helps get the natural real emotions of the couple.

So you know where you are having your engagement shoot, and the style that will suit the location, I would still recommend bringing at least one outfit change just to mix it up a bit, having variety or a different look makes for great versatility in your engagement shoot, not only that but if the weather turns you may need a rain jacket or umbrella.

This one is for the ladies - we will be getting some amazing shots of your engagement ring ? So make sure that the sparkles are popping and your nails are done, this is a great excuse to have a little makeover right!

Do’s

• Choose complimenting clothes styles and colours, if you are up a mountain (which btw I would love to do) then you will need the appropriate clothing. If you are in woodland then neutral solid colours may be preferable, likewise if you are in a city, you may want to be a bit more bold and stylish? As long as you are comfortable then that is all that really matters.

• Bring props, this can be anything from your pets, instruments, sports, whichever suits you, this can add variety to your shoot which will make it unique.

• Get professional hair and makeup done, could be a great opportunity to have your hair or makeup trial on the same day?

• Get some new clothes, shoes as long as they are comfortable and suit the vibe.

Don’ts

• Wear exactly matching outfits.

• Anything with big patterns, logos, polka dots, stripes, or animal prints.

• Fluorescent clothing, shirts in particular or very bright colours - gives a colour cast to skin.

• T-shirts or old trainers, they may be your favourite but they will not look the best in photos.

• Empty pockets guys, nothing worse than having a phone or a big set of keys showing in your jeans.

If you have chosen an outside location, the time I find works best is around late afternoon when the sun is low, the light is more flattering at this time of day, avoiding harsh shadows and just looks the best if you get a good sunset. Also the blue hour just after sunset can have great opportunities if the sky is lit up or has a nice warming glow, some really nice shots can be produced. So allow plenty of time after your shoot as it may just be worth hanging around.

• Have a great time, the most important thing is to enjoy yourself, this will come across in the pictures if you are in a good mood, it shows!

• Put the trust in your photographer, you will be amazed by the results, especially if this is your first time in front of the camera. It may feel a bit strange but trust me your images will look awesome.

• You can never go wrong with neutrals! Play it safe with solid neutral colours.

If you have got this far, thank you, I really hope this helps with your choices.

Richard Puncheon Photography Bedfordshire Wedding And Portrait Photographer